When thinking about sexual health, most people immediately think about this question from a “plumbing” perspective. “Am I having sex? Could I get pregnant? Can I perform?” However, there are more questions to consider, “Am I having fun?” “Am I emotionally present?” “Are my desires shared with my partner?” What steps am I taking to achieve my goals? Am I setting aside time regularly to grow my sexual self? While scheduling sex is important, it is critical that only you know that the sex was scheduled, thus creating the illusion of sex being spontaneous, natural and passionate. At the Center for Growth / www.sextherapyinphiladelphia.com we encourage our clients to focus more on creating the opportunity for intimacy, and less on whether scheduled sex actually happens. This aspect of sexual health takes time and requires constant attention. We believe that sexual health is similar to staying in shape. You have to have physical activity built into your daily routine, otherwise you will wake up in five years, out of shape wondering what happened.
Struggling? Not sure how to fix your situation, call today to talk with a sex therapist. To speak with a sex therapist call 215 922 5683 x 100 or self schedule online for an inperson or virtual sex therapy appointment. We offer sex therapy appointments in Ocean City NJ, Santa Fe NM, Philadelphia PA, and Mechanicsville VA. We offer virtual sex therapy appointments in PA, NJ, VA, NM, GA, FL.