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Binge Eating and Mindfulness - Sensory Eating Exercise
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Mindful Eating with Gratitude
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How to become more present
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Field of Protection
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Getting in the Habit of Meditating
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Slowing Down Eating Binges
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The Power of Choice
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STOP Your Anxiety Now
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Anxiety and the RAIN Method
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5 Steps to Mindful Eating
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Embracing the Not-Self of Buddhism: A Path to Inner Freedom
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Mindful Sex: A Guide To Becoming Fully Present Sexually
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My Feelings Matter Meditation
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Stressed Out Teens? Try Forest Bathing.
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Accessing Your Wise Mind
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Being Mindful During Sex: Find-the-Smell Activity
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Releasing Anxiety Through The Body
Learning to clear your mind and let thoughts go is vital in managing anxiety. But this is much easier said than done, right? If it was that easy, we wouldn’t need psychotherapy! Therapy can…
End Binge Eating with the Hunger Scale
Many people who struggle with binge eating have successfully disconnected from their bodies and their ability to sense hunger. This is because binges are triggered by uncomfortable emotions such as shame, sadness, anger or fear…
Color Breathing Guided Meditation
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The Chakras Explained
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Spotting Grounding Technique
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DBT Distress Tolerance
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Ayurveda and Your Mental Health: An Introduction
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Non-Meditation is the Best Meditation
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How Can Buddhism Make Me Happy?
Hey gang! Welcome to “How Can Buddhism Make Me Happy?” We’ll outline some lessons from Buddhism that can make you happier! This won’t be a systematic exploration of the religion or its philosophy, just a…
Why Attend a Meditation Retreat
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ACT Therapy: Accepting and Being Mindful
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Keeping a Spiritual Journal
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Keeping Your Boundaries Over the Holidays
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Benefits of Your Wise Mind
In the late 1980’s, Dr. Marsha Linehan created a cognitive behavioral treatment known as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for chronic suicidal, self-injurious individuals who struggled with emotion regulation. A key component of DBT includes mindfulness…
Essential Oils for Mental Health
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Healing from Trauma
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Who Am I?
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Your Inner Critic
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What Your Body Language Is Saying
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Tidying Up Your Mind
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Creating a Mantra Card
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Managing Anxiety: Color Breathing Technique
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Chakra Clearing
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Mindful Touch
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Unblocking The Throat Chakra
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Showers, SAD, and Sexual Desire
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See and Be: A Mindful Communication Exercise for Couples
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Sensory Processing Concerns Post COVID-19
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A Meditation for Medical Uncertainty and Chronic Pain
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Practicing Gratitude
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Finding Meaning in Healing
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Text Anxiety
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Ayurveda and Your Mental Health: The Seasons
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Tonglen for Difficult Moments
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for FND
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Stuck in a Cycle of Pain
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Caring for the Caretaker
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10 Tips for Adults with ADHD
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5 Ways to Fix Communication With Your Partner Today
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7 Essential Steps to Making Change Real
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Animal Assisted Therapy (AAT)
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A Gratitude Tree
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About Loss
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Accepting Your Partners Limitations
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Advocating to Your Doctor About Possible Vaginismus
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All or Nothing Thinking
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Negative Emotions
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Analingus
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Anger
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Anger Management Therapy in Philadelphia
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Anorexia and the Doctor
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Anorexia Nervosa
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Anxiety
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Anxiety and Drug Use
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Anxiety Attacks in the Workplace
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Attachment Theory
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Automatic Negative Thoughts and Core Beliefs
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Binge Eating Disorder Criteria
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Building a Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual Network
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Bulimia Nervosa
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Causes of Prenatal and Postpartum Depression
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Changing All or Nothing Thinking
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Changing Careers
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Choosing Spirituality
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Coming Out To Parents
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Communication for Couples: Focusing on Solvable Problems
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Coping with a passive aggressive partner
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Coping with Grief
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Couple's Sculpting Exercise
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Couples and Money
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Couples Therapy: I Am Check Ins
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Creating a Grief Collage
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Critical Weight
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DARE: A four step approach to anxiety management
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Denial
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Discovering Motivation to Change
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Dissecting Panic
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Eating Disorder Feeling List
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Effective Communication: Learning to Listen and Validate
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Effects of Drinking Water on a Diet
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Emotional Eating Quiz
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Emotional Labor and Relationships
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Expectations For Marriage Counseling
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Exploring the Pleasures of Anal Sex and Stimulation
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Feeling Like a Team in your Relationship
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Fibromyalgia and Mental Health
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Finding Motivation To Change
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Grieving the Loss of a Relationship
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Healthy Narcissism
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Healthy Snacks
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Healthy Weight
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Herpes Support Group in Philadelphia
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How common is Bulimia Nervosa
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How common is obesity?
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How Do I find My Spirituality
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How to Come Out to Family
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How To Disarm A Narcissist
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How to Keep Romance Alive After Kids
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How To Nurture Your Relationship
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How To Share Your Shame In Therapy
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How to Survive a Wedding with your Narcissistic Family Member
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Identifying and Managing Critical Incident Stress In Police Officers
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Identifying Your Boundaries
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Improving Relationships
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In the Mind of Someone With Anorexia
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Internet Compulsions
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Job Hunt Slump
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WorryKnowing When Its More Than Worry
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Managing Anxiety: I See/I Hear/ I Feel Exercise
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Medication for Adult ADHD
The goal of medication for Adult ADHD is to reduce hyperactivity, increase attention and the ability to focus, and to reduce impulsive behaviors. Stimulant medication is generally the most effective medication for the treatment of…
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Narcissism and Shame Treatment and Tips
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Noticing Your Emotional Labor in Relationships
Emotional labor is something that we do every day, yet rarely pay attention to. Acting understanding to a demanding boss, being friendly to rude customers, and being patient with stressful kids are all examples. Though…
Obesity
Obesity affects between 5% and 10% of the population. The rate is rising. Obesity means that a person has a bmi (body mass index) of 30 or above. People within this category may have higher…
Parenting Your ADHD Child
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Pelvic Floor Muscle Strengthening Exercise
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Personality Profiles Associated With Anorexia
The Personality Profiles often associated with Anorexia Nervosa While Anorexia Nervosa can affect anyone, eighty percent of all people suffering from Anorexia Nervosa are females between the ages of 12 and 30. Approximately, ninety to…
Pet therapy: Casey’s Depression
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Plan for Reducing Anxiety
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Practical Spirituality
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Preventing Panic Attacks: The Anxiety Scale
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PTSD Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
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Redirecting your Post-Wedding Day Blues
Redirecting your post wedding day blues: Many newlyweds can recall the many bits of advice they received leading up to the wedding day, “Enjoy every moment, the day goes by in a flash,” “Don’t sweat…
Replacing Triggers
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Resolving an Argument
Couples Therapy in Philadelphia : Fair Fighting Techniques - Resolving an argument Successfully resolving an argument requires: Bringing the issue up in the moment. By stating what is happening in the moment, gives both…
Resting Metabolic Rate
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Risk factors for Prenatal Depression
Prenatal depression is a type of depression that occurs during pregnancy. It can cause symptoms such as sadness, anxiety, fatigue, and difficulty bonding with the unborn baby. Risk Factors for Prenatal Depression & Postpartum Depression…
Ritual Spirituality
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Self Care After the Election
America’s dysfunctions are the highlights of the news. Candidates pointed their fingers at their opponent(s). They dodged answering important questions and continuously displayed reactivity. Therapists teach their clients to grow out of the maladaptive behavior…
Sex Compulsions and Shame
Sex compulsion and shame When it comes to sex compulsion, shame plays a significant role. Shame is a primary drive and trigger in sex compulsion, from having shame and guilt for the sexual acting…
Sexual Trauma and Shame
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Shacking Up: We decided to move in together, now what?
Couples Therapy in Philadelphia, Ocean City, Santa Fe, Mechanicsville : Shacking up: We decided to move in together, now what? So the two of you sat down, had the painful discussions as recommended in the…
Signs and Symptoms of Giving Too Much
Signs and Symptoms of Giving Too Much: a power imbalance in a relationship does not mean that your partner is being overly demanding or abusive! When a relationship goes from balanced to imbalanced, it is…
Signs and Symptoms of Stress
Center for Growth /Stress Therapy in Philadelphia Stress is a condition that occurs in response to actual or anticipated difficulties in life. The psychological signs and symptoms of stress: The tendency to worry too…
Skin Picking Treatment
Skin picking is considered a Body-Focused Repetitive Behavior Disorder which effects up to 5% of the population. Examples of skin picking include, but are not limited to: picking acne or scabs, scratching itchy skin until…
Sleep and Binge Eating
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Space for Emotional Availability
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Speaking Up
Speaking Up: men and women have been equal in modern America for several decades. They can work the same jobs, take the same roles in military and politics, and they have the same rights in…
Spiritual Connection
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Spirituality As My Moral Compass
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Staging Anxiety to Uncover Your Triggers
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Strategies for New Moms
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Stress
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Stress Management Techniques
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Talking to Your Kid About Going to Play Therapy
Play Therapy in Center City Philadelphia: There are many reasons for seeking play therapy for your child. Every parent has his or her own specific set of reasons. Regardless of how and why you made…
Temperamental Traits Associated With Anorexia
Is there a certain personality profile associated with people who are Anorexic? Yes there is. Low novelty seeking: This indicates that a person does not have a desire to seek out new experiences. They are…
The 5 Stages of Grief
Classically, therapists believed there were 5 stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. These stages of grief comprise a lifetime process, and are not an end in themselves. Each stage may reoccur throughout…
The Deceptive Behaviors of Anorexia
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The Gifts of Shame
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The Power of Compliments
The Power of Compliments: compliments can become few and far between in relationships, and worse, the compliments can often become stale or too general. As nice as it is to hear someone say, “You look…
The Power of Rituals When Grieving
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The Self Esteem Workout
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Treatment for Anorexia Nervosa
Treatment for Anorexia Nervosa -what to expect: Treatment of the client with Anorexia usually requires close attention to medical, psychiatric, and nutritional components of the disease. If someone has Anorexia, their therapist should be…
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Types of Cohabitating Couples
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Understanding Hypermobility Syndromes
Each year, thousands of Americans are diagnosed with hypermobility syndromes, including Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, joint hypermobility syndrome, and Marfan syndrome. These conditions are chronic illnesses; although the symptoms can be treated and the syndromes can be…
Unwanted Advice
Pregnancy and Postpartum Therapy in Philadelphia , Ocean City, Santa Fe, Mechanicsville: Ways to Handle Unwanted Advice During pregnancy, you might have noticed that random strangers started smiling more at you. The majority of people…
Valentines Day for Couples with Kids
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and many couples will begin the conversation about how will they celebrate this year, (or at least every couples therapist will tell you they should). There are many…
Visualization Technique Part One
Anxiety Therapy in Philadelphia, Ocean City, Santa Fe, Mechanicsville : Visualization Technique Part One: visualization and imagery are powerful weapons in the arsenal against anxiety. Whether guided by a therapist at the Center for Growth…
Visualization Technique Part Two
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Ways to Improve Self Esteem
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What Does It Mean To Be Diagnosed With Borderline Personality Disorder?
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What is a Doula?
What is a doula: A Doula is a coach to support parents-to-be during this transitionary period of labor & delivery as well as the few first few days after the baby is born. A doula…
What is a narcissist?
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What is a Panic Attack?
Panic Attack Treatment in Philadelphia What is a panic attack: Panic attacks can be devastating for the people suffering from them and mystifying for their friends and loved ones. Although they are different…
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety Treatment in Philadelphia What is Anxiety: suddenly you’re overcome with an intense fear or sense of gloom. You feel as though you want to run, but don’t know why. You’re restless, unable…
What is Codependency?
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What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?
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What is Trauma?
What is Trauma? From a trauma counseling therapist’s perspective, trauma is defined as a deeply disturbing experience, which can be sexual, physical and / or emotional. Here at the Center for Growth in Philadelphia, we…
What it means to be your authentic self?
Authentic self means: Being your true authentic self means what you say in life aligns with what your actions. Your authentic self goes beyond what you do for a living, what possessions you own, or…
What Stage Of The Problem Are You In?
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When You Think About Touching Yourself
For men who want to learn more ways to touch themselves and experience pleasure without ever engaging sex therapy: People have an amazing ability to feel pleasure based off of touch alone. Touching yourself is…
Will I Gain or Lose Weight in Recovery
My Doctor states that I am overweight. Will I gain or lose weight in recovery? During the process of recovering from Bulimia Nervosa and Binge Eating Disorder some people lose weight and others gain…
Will This Relationship Last
Will this relationship last? Relationship and Marital Problems: The answer is simple, it all depends upon how determined each individual is to make the relationship work. If two people want to make the relationship last…
Working Towards Healing After a Loss
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Sensate Focus Touching for Body Image
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How to Support A Partner With Anxiety
How to support a partner with anxiety Relationships can be difficult at times, especially when an anxiety disorder is added to the mix. Living in constant fear is not fun, but anxiety not only affects…
Babyloss and Mother's Day
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Grieving and Coping
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Overcoming Negativity Bias
Overcoming negativity bias is far more complicated than most people imagine. Though we often split the world into optimists and pessimists, the reality is our brains are hypervigilant to threats; therefore, we inherently have a…
Babyloss and Naming
What's in a Name? Deciding whether to Name the Baby You Lost. I've known, unfortunately, many women who lost babies during various stages of pregnancy. I've walked beside them as they struggled to make meaning…
Virtual Reality Therapy Services
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Stopping Anxious Thoughts
Our prefrontal cortex is one of our greatest developmental achievements and challenges. On the one hand, it allows us to perform complex executive functions (e.g., problem solving, judgement, memory, impulse control, etc.); on the other…
Resolving Shame
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Differentiation Strategies
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Babyloss and Holidays
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Winter Relaxation Exercise
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Codependent Couples
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Couples’ Formula for Successful Requests
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Mourning Your Affair Partner
Losing anyone you love is difficult. But losing an affair partner is difficult and complicated. This is because you may be excluded from normal mourning activities and rituals, and may not be able to reach…
Marina France
Marina France Resume Center for Growth May 2019-PresentTherapist and Manager of Quality Assurance Provide weekly individual and couples therapy, drawing upon relational, psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral and mindfulness techniques to tailor treatment to specific client and…
Creativity and Babyloss
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PCOS and Mental Health
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Asking for Help
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Couples: Talking About Money
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Moving Toward Emotional Availability
Whether it be a discussion among close friends or your significant other, moving toward emotional availability may sound easy, but it can be very difficult to be emotionally available to another person, especially your…
Having Difficult Conversations
Choosing to have an abortion is never easy. Many difficult considerations come into play, and the decision is never taken lightly. However, in the aftermath of abortion, you may find yourself encountering others who have…
Feeling Stuck in Therapy
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Beat Anxiety and Worry
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Managing Anxiety During Self-Isolation
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Dealing with Death during COVID-19
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The Boundary Circle
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Getting Kinky
Perhaps you and your partner have decided you’re going to try some new kinky activities in the bedroom buuuuuuut you’re not really sure what you and your partner are willing to try together. You know…
Quality Time with Your Partner
The term “quality time” in couples counseling is a commonly used phrase in the context of a close relationship, but most notably romantic relationships. This phrase sometimes has feelings attached to it that could…
L&D or D&E?
There are so many painful decisions involved from the moment you learn your baby is facing a life-limiting illness, or serious anomaly. With very little time to spare, parents are forced to determine if…
Babyloss in Unintended Pregnancy
If we all had our way, parents would have total control over when and how they get pregnant: minimal trying, minimal effort, and an easy pregnancy journey. Unfortunately, this is not the reality. Sometimes…
Therapy in a Rainbow Pregnancy
Sometimes, getting pregnant again after babyloss is just the tip of the iceberg, and instead of feeling relief after seeing a positive test result, many loss parents feel dread. Though they wanted and hoped…
Seasonal Affective Disorder and Covid
As the sun begins to set earlier in the colder months, you may find yourself feeling bummed more than usual. This feeling can be referred to as “winter blues” but is most commonly defined as…
Pregnant and Afraid?
Finding out that you’re pregnant can feel very scary. Even if you had been hoping for a child, whether now or at some point in the future, it is common to experience some amount of…
Worry Time
Do you often find yourself worrying about events in the future? And not just worrying a little, sometimes worry that can get so big it stops you from wanting or being able to do anything…
Are You Minding Your Food
Are You Minding Your Food? Mindfulness seems to be one of the new buzz words. If you google it or search in YouTube you’ll find tons of corresponding sites. Most people attribute it to breathing…
Build Stability with Morning Routines
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From Stress to Rest
Do you have a hard time calming down once your body is in high gear, whether it be from stress, fear, or excitement? Do breathing exercises not really seem to work for you? In order…
Shifting Gender Identity
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Spot Love-Bombing In Action
Spot Love Bombing In Action: Are you being love-bombed? New relationships are often full of excitement, anxiety, romance, confusion, surprises, and fun. In the midst of such strong feelings, it can be very difficult to…
Self-Care For Teens
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When Love Bombing Stops
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Trauma: the Recovery, Healing, and Personal Growth Journey
What is Trauma? Words like traumatic, triggered, and dysregulated have become more common in day to day talk. This can be especially true if you follow self help influencers on social media as part of…
Covert Narcissism- What Makes It So Tricky To Identify
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Building Community as a College First Year
So you graduated high school and have been accepted into university as a first year, now what? You are venturing into the unknown and plan to move to a new state that you will spend…
Using Art Therapy To Explore Boundaries
Boundaries get a lot of attention these days, for good reason. Boundaries are what separate you from others. Not physically or permanently, but boundaries are the invisible representations that differentiate you from any and everyone…
Functional Neurological Disorder (FND)
Living with Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) can feel confusing and scary. There are not always clear answers and it may feel difficult to get the support you need from health care providers or loved ones…
Diagnosed with Parkinson's
Diagnosed with Parkinson’s What is Parkinson’s Disease? In the United States alone, over 200,000 individuals are diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease every year. Parkinson’s Disease affects the individual’s nervous system. Parkinson’s Disease is a neurodegenerative disorder…
Parentified During Childhood
Parentified during childhood. What does the term “Parentified” mean? Being parentified means being forced or put into the position of a parent by your caregiver even though you are a child. The child is usually…
Tolerating Distress in EMDR
EMDR is a type of therapy that can help individuals who have had past traumatic experiences. Traumatic experiences are challenging to address and can create significant distress. Tolerating distress in EMDR Therapy is an important…
What to Expect In Your First Clinical Counseling Internship
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Social Media Conversations with Children
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Daughters of Narcissist Mothers
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The Harm of Food Morality in Orthorexia
Defining Food Morality Every food serves a different nutritional purpose for us. Foods fuel our bodies through different nutrients. Eating a wide range of foods helps us naturally get many nutrients that keep our body…
Healing Power of Soil
When was the last time you got your hands the soil-kind-of-dirty? For gardeners, farmers, and all around dirt enthusiasts, this answer could be as recent as today. For most of us it turns out, the…
What is DARVO?
What is DARVO? (Therapy in Philadelphia, Ocean City, Mechanicsville & Santa Fe) A specific type of communication pattern that creates challenges in relationships is a pattern known as DARVO. While DARVO is an odd name…
Holiday Survival Guide: Politics
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Recognizing Emotions After Being Parentified
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Blended Families With Teenage Children
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Filipino American Mental Health
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Trusting Yourself
At some point in the course of your life, you have probably heard someone say, “Just trust yourself.” While we may agree this is a good idea, it can be hard to understand and even…
Talking about your Eating Disorder with your Mom
9% of the population is affected by eating disorders. You are not alone. It is common for eating disorders to develop in teenage years through young adulthood. After realizing you may have an eating…
Harnessing Anger in Relationships
When was the last time you (or your partner) proudly smashed things in the name of anger? Often, this is a concept driven far from the realm of relationship repair, but I urge you to…
Social Media Overload
Social Media Overload Whether it’s Tik Tok, Instagram, YouTube or any other popular social media websites, if you have a teenager, more than likely they are deeply engaged with their social media family as you…
Anxiety Around Eating in Public
Anxiety Around Eating in Public Eating with other people can serve as a connection with others in our life. Eating in public is not always the easiest for everyone however. Some of us experience anxiety…
Building Confidence: Self Esteem Therapy
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Men: Improve Sexual Performance by Asking Yourself for Consent
As a man, asking yourself for consent before engaging in sexual activity with others can be a helpful step in reducing male sexual dysfunction, such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. By checking in with…
What Does It Mean To Be Non-binary?
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Emotional Invalidation in Relationships
Sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with others is one of the most fulfilling ways to establish closeness, intimacy, and safety in a relationship. But when your emotions are dismissed, belittled, or questioned, that…
You Deserve to Feel Safe at Home
“Do you feel safe at home?” It has become commonplace to hear this question in a variety of healthcare settings, and it is a common question now to be asked when visiting your doctor’s office…
Navigating Parental Caregiving
Deciding to take care of an aging parent for some is the ultimate act of love. It is a thankless way to show gratitude to your parent(s) for bringing you into this world and raising…
Men: Stop Compulsive Sexual Behavior by Healing Your Avoidant Attachment Style
For men who struggle with both an avoidant attachment style and compulsive sexual issues, emotionally focused therapy (EFT) can be a beneficial approach. Avoidant attachment is a pattern of behavior where individuals avoid emotional closeness…
Identify Your Defense Mechanisms
In the vast realm of human psychology, defense mechanisms play a crucial role in safeguarding our mental well-being. These mechanisms, operating beneath our awareness, act as psychological shields that help us navigate distressing emotions, conflicting…
Hair Pulling Patterns: Trichotillomania
Understanding your Hair Pulling Patterns: A hair pulling self-help monitoring tool: Treatment for Trichotillomania Have you ever caught yourself mindlessly pulling at your hair? Maybe you're scrolling through your phone or watching Netflix…
Radical Self-Care Therapy
Radical Self-Care Therapy It can be difficult to find a self-care practice that works and has long-lasting results. Looking online for answers, it’s almost impossible to ignore the ads of the latest “mango sugar body…
Queer Families of Choice: Understanding Queer Communities and the Role of Chosen Family
For many people, family is where life begins, and family provides the first group of people attending to your physical and emotional needs. Your parent or parents or step-parents, siblings, immediate kin, grandparents, and aunts…
Therapy for Loneliness
Therapy for Loneliness: Loneliness, a deeply human emotion, can make us feel disconnected even in the company of others. Similar to grief, it doesn't always fit into neat categories or follow a straightforward path. Understanding…
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Creating a Safe Place Exercise
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Creating a Safe Place Exercise Today we are going to be talking about an exercise called “Creating a Safe Place.” This isn’t about going to a physical space, but rather it’s about creating…
Tuning Into Boundaries
How Do I Know if My Boundaries Are Being Respected or Violated? Our feelings act as our internal alarm system. At their core, alarms are a mechanism that alert us to distress or danger. Feelings…
Learning About Boundaries
We’ve all heard the word “boundaries.” Boundaries are a popular buzzword that have crossed from mental health and psychology circles into the mainstream. Boundaries are one of the most important gifts we can give ourselves…
Opening Relationships- Therapist’s Guide
Are you and your partner thinking about opening up your relationship but aren’t sure where to start? Jumping in head first without discussing boundaries, needs, expectations, and logistics might sound fun and exciting, or terrifying…
How to Navigate Stress as a Queer Teenager
How to Navigate Stress as a Queer Teenager Navigating personal relationships as a teenager can be hard. Classes, friends, and extra curricular activities can be overwhelming on their own. As a queer identifying teenager…
Understanding Hurt Between Partners
Why does my partner hurt me? Why do I hurt my partner? Okay, so your romantic relationship is totally fricked. Or! It’s been on the fritz lately. Or! It’s going well, but you want it…
Hack Your Nervous System: Stress Therapy
Hack Your Nervous System: Understand Your Body’s Response to Threats and Change It You’re getting ready to give a big speech and you feel your heart start to race. You’re driving down the road and…
Assessing Sexual Boundaries
Whether you are single or in a committed relationship, assessing sexual boundaries and preferences can be difficult. Our awareness of our own individual sexuality can vary greatly based on our upbringing, education, experiences, communication, and…
Depression and Your Basic Needs
If you’re someone who lives with depression, you might find that caring for your basic needs can become very difficult during your depressive episodes. Essential and routine tasks like eating, bathing, and getting dressed every…
Questions to ask my pregnant partner
So, you just found out that you or your partner is pregnant! Congratulations.
As you enter this new stage of life, we created a series of questions for you and your partner …
Finding Social Support as a Queer Teenager
Finding Social Support as a Queer Teenager Community support is a key factor in managing stress. A community can be anything you make it- a few friends from school, trusted family members, or extracurricular group…
Communicating Sexual Boundaries
Recognizing when we have a boundary is challenging. Speaking our boundaries into existence can feel terrifying, especially when we have no idea how the other person is going to respond. While sexual boundaries may feel…
Therapy Hangovers
Therapy Hangovers Alcohol hangovers are the result of dehydration and electrolyte Imbalance. Alcohol is a diuretic, meaning it pulls out water in the form of excess urination which will create an electrolyte imbalance. Therapy…
Exploring Non-Binary Identity in Therapy: What to Expect
Exploring Non-Binary Identity in Therapy: What to Expect Starting to explore your non-binary identity in therapy can be nerve-racking. You may be asking yourself questions like, “What should I expect? What should I be looking…
Exposure Therapy for Social Anxiety
Exposure Therapy for Social Anxiety Many people struggle with social anxiety. It’s like having a tiny critic in your mind who will criticize and scrutinize you when you’re in social situations. It can make small…
Practicing Body Neutrality: A Path to Self-Acceptance
Practicing Body Neutrality: A Path to Self-Acceptance What is Body Neutrality? In a world saturated with images of unattainable beauty standards and societal pressures to achieve the "perfect" body, many individuals find themselves trapped…
Changing Your Name as a Trans/Nonbinary Person
Changing Your Name as a Trans/Nonbinary Person The choice of changing your name as a trans/nonbinary person is a deeply personal decision for individuals seeking a name that better reflects their true identity. Names are…
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for FND
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an effective way to help manage Functional Neurological Disorders (FND). FND is a condition in which there is a malfunction in the way the brain receives and processes information to…
Limerence and Narcissistic Tendencies
You may have heard of limerence in passing, or it may be a new concept for you. The term itself, coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, Ph.D., is described as intense, overwhelming feelings of infatuation for…
Mental Health Therapy for Seniors
Mental Health Therapy for Seniors
Are you a senior looking for mental health therapy? Are you unsure of what happens in therapy? Do you worry the therapy is not going to equate to …
Managing Jealousy and Feeling Compersion in Non-Monogamous Relationships
Non-monogamous relationships offer individuals the opportunity to explore love, intimacy, and connection in ways that diverge from traditional monogamous norms. If you have recently opened up your monogamous relationship to include other sexual and/or romantic…
Treating Gender Dysphoria
Gender dysphoria is a complex and deeply personal experience that affects individuals whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth. Understanding this condition, its treatment options, and strategies for managing it…